4 Reasons You Haven’t Found Your Soulmate

Everyone has a soulmate. The problem is not everyone has been able to find them. We see our soulmates as that someone who’s very attracted to our souls or our spiritual presence. Relationships with soulmates are highly sought after because they are both nourishing and harmonious on a very deep spiritual level.

Soulmates are naturally enticed by the very essence and passion of what our soul offers them. Prior to our births, our soul and that of our soulmate were connected and mutually agreed to link together for a much higher spiritual purpose. So for those of us who haven’t found our soul mates yet, here are four possible reasons.

1) You Are Not Being the Real You

The fact is very few of us really know who we are. Most of us have spent our lives trying to ignore things that really bug us, and then we tend to sugarcoat the truths that we don’t want to tell other people. How can a person that does those things not be lying to themselves? Being the real you is all about being honest with yourself and understanding the things that you desire in your life – and not what others want for you.

So how do you really know yourself well enough to be the real you?

There are a few key things that you can do in order to get to know yourself better. One of the most important things is taking the time to be alone and reflect on your life. This means taking some time for yourself – away from work, away from your family, and away from your friends. It’s important to have this time so that you can think about the things that are truly important to you and what you want out of life.

Another thing that you can do to get to know yourself better is to keep a journal. This will allow you to track your thoughts and feelings over time, which can be extremely helpful in getting to know yourself better.

2) You Subconsciously Attract the Wrong People

In the end, your true soulmate is going to be enticed by your true soul signal. This signal is a vibration that is unique to you only, like a fingerprint of your soul. Attracting the wrong people goes right back to not being the real you again. When your true soul is dilated with beliefs and ideas from your environment, it becomes a real challenge to attract your soulmate.

And the only way to change that is by recognizing how you are sabotaging your soulmate connection.

soulmate connectionThe first step is to understand what kind of people you’re attracting in the first place, and why those are really not your soulmates. Often, it will also be a clue as to how you may have been unconsciously sending out the wrong signal here. The wrong people often come into our lives at times when we’re stressed or depressed – like a distraction, or because they are going through similar things themselves.

So many different reasons can explain why we find ourselves attracted to certain types of people so frequently: maybe it was all about a specific experience for us; maybe we wanted somebody to give us attention; perhaps we were trying to fix something ourselves or overcome personal trauma.

However, at the end of the day, none of these reasons matter. Ultimately, what matters most is that we understand why our soulmate connection is so important – and how we can reclaim it by tuning into our true soul signal. Our souls are fundamentally aligned with each other in a way that no relationship with anyone else could ever match.

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So if you want your perfect partner to come into your life, start by looking inward and learning to trust yourself again. Reclaim the spark within you and learn how to radiate that beautiful energy outward – because only then will you attract someone who truly deserves and appreciates all of those wonderful qualities in you.

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3) Your Subconscious Mind is Distorting Your Thoughts

A big part of our soul fingerprint comes from our subconscious thoughts. What makes this important is the fact that we have more than 50,000 thoughts every single day. Over time, many of those thoughts become inundated with influences from our surrounding environment. Don’t believe me? How often do you think about work when you are not there?

This is not to say that thinking about work is a bad thing, it just illustrates how much influence our environment has on our subconscious thoughts.

The point here is that our thoughts are part of our natural vibration, and this is what ultimately attracts certain people to you in the end. So unless you are having thoughts that are true to your soul, then you will keep attracting the wrong people.

Our subconscious mind has a powerful influence over our thinking and behavior. This is because the vast majority of information that it processes on an ongoing basis comes from the outside world – sights, sounds, smells, tastes, and physical sensations.

4 reasons you haven't found your soulmateWhen your awareness is focused elsewhere (on a task or conversation), most of the input coming into your brain isn’t actually processed consciously at all. It flows in through your sensory organs, gets sorted by your brain, and then stored for later use without you even being aware of what’s happening.

But while this information may not be consciously perceived, it nonetheless makes its way to our subconscious minds. Every sight we see and sound we hear, every sensation we feel – whether experienced directly or through someone else’s description – gets stored away in the vast “memory banks” of our subconscious. And this information doesn’t just sit there idly; it actively shapes the way we see the world and ourselves.

Have you ever had the experience of suddenly realizing that you’ve been thinking about something completely different from what you were supposed to be focusing on? This is an example of how our subconscious mind can take over and distort our thoughts. When we allow our minds to wander, it’s often our subconscious thoughts and associations that come to the forefront, rather than the task at hand.

This tendency of our mind to wander is actually quite useful; it allows us to make connections between ideas in our memory bank and “snap” into new ideas, which can help us to solve problems or devise new solutions. The problem comes when we aren’t aware that this is taking place; then we end up in a situation where the wrong signals are going out to the world.

So what can you do to keep your mind active on your desired task? One of the most effective ways is to involve as many senses as possible – both visual (for example, by making notes or writing down your thoughts) and aural (by recording an audio file of your thoughts). This helps to engage both hemispheres of the brain equally, ensuring that information flows through both halves and isn’t simply processed by one or the other.

Another useful technique is to regularly check in with yourself, both mentally and physically. Mentally, this means taking a step back from your thoughts and observing them dispassionately, as if you were watching a movie. This will help you to catch any negative or unhelpful thoughts as they arise, and reframe them in a more positive light.

Physically, it involves paying attention to your body language and making sure that it is conveying the message you want to send to the world. Are you standing or sitting up straight? Smiling? Making eye contact? All of these things make a difference to the way we are perceived by others and can influence the way we see ourselves.

So next time you find your mind wandering, take a moment to check in with yourself. You may be surprised at the difference it makes.

4) Your Current Relationship Process is Stuck on Repeat

Your ideas about what a relationship is supposed to be like are first based on the relationship your parents had. Even though you may not condone some of their practices, they still left an impression upon you. Romantic connections bring into question a whole assortment of emotions that we have to manage and address.

Not only is there love involved, but there is also trust, intimacy, integrity, values, beliefs, and especially your attitude toward the opposite sex (unless you are in a same-sex relationship). For instance, if you have a trust issue, then you tend to become afraid when you get too close to someone – and that someone could actually be your soulmate.

The bottom line is that unless you make some changes in the way you view relationships, you will continue getting the same results. The best way to begin addressing this is by evaluating your past relationships. You should pay close attention to why those relationships began and why they ended. Also, identify the things that made you have doubts and uneasy feelings during those relationships.

The Universe knows your Soulmate – do you?
One sketch can CHANGE your life
9.5/10 Our Score


Yes, we CAN predict your perfect match.

Do you have a precise, clear, confident picture of your one true love? I do.

Maybe you’ve met already, or maybe your paths are about to cross.


It’s time to manifest happiness, dispel doubt, and empower your soul’s true purpose!